In this patriarch, women are told that if you are good, then you are quiet.
When women speak up for themselves, they may be regarded as a bitch or ball buster or nag. We are told that during sex, women should just take whatever the male is giving and not say anything to break his confidence. If you are not being pleased in the bedroom and you don't say anything, you will never get what you want.
Women have the right to be self-expressive and you don't need permission from another person or gender. Speak up on all matters in all aspects of your life.
When a person speaks their truth, it keeps them healthy, serves their highest good and the highest good of those around them.